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love, connection& belonging

Love, by design.
Not by accident.

I help people authentically connect. With themselves, potential romantic partners, and in community.

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Francesca Hogi, love and life coach, photographed against a plaster arch
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thirteenyears

I've had a front-row seat to thousands of love stories.

First as a matchmaker. Then as a coach, advisor, and author of How to Find True Love (Hachette). My app, Franny, puts my entire Core Love Codes framework in your pocket.

My TED talks have reached over two million people. My book is the hands-on guide to the inside job of finding lasting love. And my coaching has helped people of every age and history create the love they'd almost stopped believing was possible.

I'm also a two-time Survivor contestant, and I was voted off first both times. So I know something about resilience.

Watch my Flirting TED talkWatch my True Love TED talk

Francesca Hogi on the TED stage in front of a full auditorium
TED — 2.2M views across two talks
thework

Three ways in. Pick the one that matches where you actually are.

1

Romantic Clarity Session

90 minutes · private

One focused conversation to identify what's shaping your love life right now and what needs to shift. Most people start here.

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2

The True Love Society

Monthly · membership

The most accessible way to be coached by me: live group coaching, masterclasses, and a community doing the work alongside you.

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3

Love Coaching Intensive

Three months · limited spots

Private work for people serious about changing their romantic outcomes for good. We go all the way in.

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What is Franny?

Understand how you're
wired for love.

Most dating advice is generic. FRANNY is built around you: your Human Design aura type, your dating archetype, the way you're uniquely wired to give and receive love.

Together they give you your Core Love Code, one of 180. Not a personality test. A living map of how you find love, and it evolves as you do.

Get your Core Love Code

♥ 180 codes
Your Core Love Code
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The Insightful Compass

A far-seeing needle that knows where every relationship is heading before it starts.

Projector ✦ Sailor ✦ 4/6

"You attract through presence, not pursuit. Your energy is your invitation. When you're lit up, the right people can't look away."

✦ HD × Archetypes
Francesca Hogi signing copies of How to Find True Love
How to Find True Love — Hachette, 2025
thebook

True love is an inside job.

How to Find True Love: Unlock Your Romantic Flow and Create Lasting Relationships (Hachette)

Get your copy

Francesca Hogi seated for a portrait
forbrands

Love, trust, and belonging are brand problems, too.

I help teams build products, campaigns and communities that actually connect.

Thirteen years studying what makes people connect, put to work for the brands trying to earn it. Community can't be bought, but it can be built.

A TED discovery session table card reading Draw Together: pick a subject and draw it with a new friend

I design the room

Formats built so strangers actually talk to each other. The part most people can't buy anywhere else.

TED discovery sessions · Culture3 · Soho House
Francesca Hogi moderating a conversation between two speakers

I run the conversation

Hosting and moderating, so the people you put on stage say the thing they came to say instead of their bio.

Mastercard · Amazon on Clubhouse · House of Beautiful Business
Francesca Hogi delivering a keynote to a seated audience

I speak

Keynotes on connection, on love, and on why the two are less separate than your org chart assumes.

Fast Company Innovation Festival · In Bloom · Hello Sunshine · Global Love Institute
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