Normalize True Love

Hello and thank you for stopping by. My name's Francesca Hogi and I'm on a mission to make true love a reality for all who want it.

True love = authentic alignment + unconditional love. In my TED talk, True Love—and the Myth of “Happily Ever After” I shared a vision of a world where true love is available to all, without exception.

In my various roles—as coach, writer, speaker, podcaster, and consultant, I help people find true love everywhere in their lives. As a love educator, I teach people how to live, date, and build lasting relationships in sync with the energy of true love.






Are You Ready To Make True Love Your New Normal?
Are You Ready To Make True Love Your New Normal?

You want and deserve true love. And guess what? It’s 100% possible for you. (I promise!) I know how farfetched that might sound, and trust me — there was a time when I wouldn’t have believed it either!

That’s why I created The Confident Dater, a 360° education in how to master each phase of your love journey. I created it for people like you! People who want to live your best life and have true love, without settling.

No one ever taught you how to find true love! Until now. Learn more and enroll at

Make true love your new normal.
Make true love your new normal.
Make true love your new normal.
Make true love your new normal.

The New Rules of True Love

You’ve been told that true love is a fantasy of finding one perfect person who “makes you” happy. You’ve been taught that true love is scarce-- something only the lucky few get to experience. This belief has led you to romantic insecurity, game-playing, settling for lackluster or even toxic behavior, and feeling so demoralized about dating that love starts to feel like an impossible dream. 

I’m going to let you in on a secret.
Despite what you’ve been told, or what you’ve experienced in your love life up until now, true love is possible for you. I invite you to embrace the new rules of true love -- a romantic relationship with a foundation of: mutual respect, emotional and physical intimacy, emotional and physical safety, joy, and commitment.

Love is actually the most abundant force in the entire universe, and true love is your birthright. Even if you have no idea how to find that relationship for yourself (yet), I promise you CAN have true love. Even if your current dating life is frustrating or non-existent, I promise you dating CAN be productive, fun, romantic, and even easy! (Yes, really!)

I'm Ready to Date with Intention

Dear Franny Podcast

Dear Franny is a top relationship and dating podcast, charting in 20+ countries around the world, including the USA. I interview love experts, friends, thought leaders, and give my no-holds barred advice about how to navigate modern dating. 

If you like uncommon conversations about love, this is the podcast for you.

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How to Date with Intention

“Happily Ever After” doesn’t just happen by itself.

Replace wishing and hoping for love with a focused and authentically aligned approach to making love a reality.

Stop leaving love to chance and make true love inevitable.

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What's Your Dating Archetype?

Do you know where you are on your true love journey?
Take the free Archetype Quiz and find out!