Why coaching?

Coaching transforms your life by shifting your perspective. By showing you what’s standing between where you are today and where you want to be. And by giving you the strategy and accountability necessary to achieve your love and life goals.

If you’re looking for love, I can help you:

  • Identify and change old dating patterns. (Not dating at all is still a pattern!)

  • Set heart-centered, concrete love goals, e.g. Enjoying dating, Getting into a committed relationship, breaking negative dating patterns, creating deeper connections with others, self love.

  • Navigate your modern dating challenges, from where to meet prospective partners offline, to how to convert online matches into enjoyable dates, to dealing with romantic disappointment, negative self-talk and more.

  • Use the challenges of your love journey to grow deeper in your self-love, perspective, optimism and vulnerability — all of which get you to the love you’re seeking much, much, faster!

  • Get into a healthy, committed relationship faster than you thought possible!

If you’re looking for a more fulfilling career or lifestyle, I can help you:

  • Create your own unique life vision and definition of success, and a plan to achieve it.

  • Deepen your self love, confidence and mindset.

  • Identify the personal and professional opportunities that’ll take you to the next level on your journey to a fulfilling life.

  • See and finally appreciate your unique gifts, talents, and mission on the planet.

My coaching process guides you through this process with more ease and clarity than you might imagine. See for yourself by booking your free discovery session by clicking HERE.

How does it work?

Your What

As your coach, first and foremost it’s my job to help you to get crystal clear on what your goals are. If you don’t know “what” you want, it’s going to be really hard to find it!

Your Why

Next comes your “why” — it’s powerful to move beyond “just because” or “I don’t know” or “I just thought that’s what you do” to your real why. Your real heart-centered motivations. That where your true power and insight lies.

Your How

And then comes action — the insight of what and why without action is useless. Don’t worry if you don’t yet know which steps to take to get the love and life of your dreams. That’s where the strategy comes in — and coaching is all about strategic action. You won’t be in the dark about your “how” for long!

Your Wingwoman

By working with you, I feel that I have given myself a gift because I am now in the best possible position to not only find and receive love but also be someone that is more than capable of being a loving partner in return. And that is priceless.
— Jessica O.

I bring 6 1/2 years of experience as a certified matchmaker, love and life coach, working with hundreds of people across the U.S. and abroad to achieve their love and life goals.

If it was easy to make big change on your own, you wouldn’t be reading this. We ALL need support and mentorship, and it’s my honor to be that for my clients.


I work with clients on a monthly basis, where we typically meet weekly via phone or video chat. Please contact me directly to see if we’re a match!

My expectations of working with Francesca were definitely exceeded. Not only did I meet an amazing man I love, I learned a lot about myself in the process and shed some things that were previously causing me to stand in my own way. Francesca felt like an old friend. She really cared about me being successful – not just in finding love but cared about helping me to understand the process of being intentional about who I was and what I wanted and how uncovering that would ultimately lead to love.
— lori F.

You have changed my life- I’m so grateful for you! I didn’t think my confidence would actually increase and I would see myself as someone desirable to date. I had some very enjoyable dates and some awkward ones and one AMAZING one with a guy I am now exclusively seeing and I wouldn’t have met him without having you as my coach!!
— Amy S.

I finally found time for me! My life is better all round. I’m out there dating and enjoying it! I’m realizing that I deserve so much more than I allowed myself to believe before. My confidence has soared!
— nancy u.